I’ve noticed some women seemed to be easily impressed by material items when a man tries to flaunt it in their face. It may look nice and you may feel like you’ve hit the jackpot, but many times women end up getting fooled. They should consider it a lesson learned because this shouldn’t be their primary reason for talking to a man anyway.

Guys that go to the club and  buy’s  “things” to try and get your attention shouldn’t impress you. You should want a man that doesn’t have to flaunt what he has, instead let his character determine who he is. You want a man that’s conservative with his cash so when he does decide to buy you a gift you’ll know it’s special because he isn’t going around buying every Jane something just so he can get what he wants.

This shouldn’t be even a issue, but in most cases it is. Everyone wants a real man right, which consists of him first being able to take care of himself. I’m sure most successful women want  a man that’s financially stable and that’s perfectly ok seeing that when you can hold yourself down (pay your own bills) you deserve to be selective.

Lastly a man should be willing to date you and show you a good time. I’m a firm believer in doing what you want when you feel like it, because let’s face it we are all grown, but you shouldn’t allow yourself to become attached to quickly and that’s normally the case for women after they’ve become intimate with a man. That’s why I suggest you wait until you feel likes he’s into you, on top of having values, but that’s another post.:)

Tip of the day: Don’t be so easily impressed with “things”.

Wearing: Calvin Klein Jean button up, Burberry Skirt, Prada Leopard Heels, nneka saran Bag   (love this comfy bag).

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