2014

2014

Last year was a rough year for my family. So much has gone on that I found myself questioning God about a lot of things although I know I shouldn’t have. I’m really sensitive but there are only a few people that can throw me off my game and one of them is my little brother. He’s going through so much and never complains. And at the same time he still wants me to live my life which is hard sometimes because we spend a lot of time together. I can be laughing at someone and will stop and think to myself “how do you have fun when someone you love is in pain?” I don’t want to bring that energy here so that’s why I haven’t been witting. I know you understand.

The lessons I’ve learned in 2013 is to give people a pass. You never know what anyone is going through. You see this smile, but behind it there is question, fear, doubt and pain. What keeps the smile and makes me not take it out on the world is love, faith, conquering battles and knowing in the end everything happens for a reason.

I want to thank all of you that have visited my blog for the past 4 years. Thank you for being so faithful to me. In return this is what makes me so faithful to you, even on the days I want to just curl up and cry.

As we step into a new year believe that God will give clarity and resolution to outstanding issues in your life. It is time for restoration! I pray this for all of you! Love you all.

Wearing: Parker Blouse, J Brand Jeans J Brand, Alexander Wang wallet, Kirk Geiger Pumps.

Add a little (Happy New Year’s Eve) sparkle to your life…even in sadness

Add a little (Happy New Year’s Eve) sparkle to your life…even in sadness

I bought these shoes specifically for New Year’s Eve. I’m in love with them even though they aren’t 100% comfortable. They are by Kurk Geiger.

My husband bought home these jeans for me and I knew that I’d wear them on our weekend getaway. I never know how I’m gonna feel and I want to be ready. I might want to wear a dress or I might want to wear jeans. With these particular J Brand Metallic Jeans I can still have that glam effect.

Bought this ear piece a while back. This is a great statement piece for a fantastic weekend that could be full of surprises on a holiday. Be ready for anything.

This skirt is so easy. I’d planned on wearing it with a plain tank and a leather blazer I bought, but we’ll see. (similar here)

Push the sleeves up on this vintage baby and wear it with a well fitted black dress and you’ve accomplished some bling for when the ball drops! I love this (here and here as well)

I just love this bag. I wore it last New Years Eve. It just feels festive and unexpected. My big sis gave it to me and it’s priceless! (similar unpredictable styles here and here)

You don ‘t have to wear something new every holiday. Go reinvent the pieces you have and have fun. Life is too short. Live for YOU and don’t neglect the musthave pieces that you love!

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rip

Nelson Mandela Quotes I love:

“Resentment is like drinking poison and then hoping it will kill your enemies”

“Everyone can rise above their circumstances and achieve success if they are dedicated to and passionate about what they do.”

“I learned that courage was not the absence of fear, but the triumph over it. The brave man is not he who does not feel afraid, but he who conquers that fear.”

“We must use time wisely and forever realize that the time is always ripe to do right.”

“Difficulties break some men but make others. No axe is sharp enough to cut the soul of a sinner who keeps on trying, one armed with the hope that he will rise even in the end.”

Wearing: Zara Sweater, Levi’s Jeans, Charles David Boots.

they love it

they love it

One of my great friends turned me on to this great Cafe’ in Encino called Coral Tree. I love their lemon ricotta pancakes! My little brother was over and wanted pancakes so I decided to Google a random recipe. They turned out pretty good. You guys should try it!

All done!

trust…

trust…

“Trust yourself, then you will know how to live.” Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

“You have got to discover you, what you do, and trust it.” Barbra Streisand

“Trust your ability! “Itzhak Perlman

“We’re never so vulnerable than when we trust someone – but paradoxically, if we cannot trust, neither can we find love or joy.” Walter Anderson  Wearing: Project Social T-Shirt, J Brand Jeans, Charlotte Olympia Heels, Givenchy Clutch.

HAPPY THANKSGIVING! love, majormusthaves

HAPPY THANKSGIVING! love, majormusthaves

Blessings look around you

blessingsThis past year I made it a point to reflect on the the blessings around me. I wanted to enjoy the people around me, the things around me and stop always wanting more. It’s ok to have goals and achieve success, but as we strive to do better we forget about the small thing, the important things like our loved ones, our health. 

Today I just want to relax and enjoy my family. I am thankful. I will not complain.

Have a great day!

Holiday Gift Ideas…

Holiday Gift Ideas…

 

holiday gift

I’m always on the hunt for the perfect gift to give to someone that has everything. These are all the things I’d love to receive as gifts. Sometimes it takes a small gift to let the ones you love know that they are appreciated.

Striped Cosmetic Brush Set for our friends that love make-up.

Home Collection-Jo Malone London is perfect for someone that’s a new homeowner.

diptyque ‘Feu de Bois’ Scented Candles are my absolute favorite!

Double Down Ring will add spice/edge to any ensemble.

Threhold Wine Accessory Set-Brass Fox adds a holiday touch to your wines.

Nail Lacquer Carnal Ted- Tom Ford is so vibrant and fierce.

Nars Velvet Matte Lipstick Pencil Dolce Vita will turn heads.

Leather Coffee Cozies is ideal for tea/coffee drinkers such as myself.

I tend not to judge people because I know God doesn’t judge me..

I tend not to judge people because I know God doesn’t judge me..

forgive

Last night I had a dream that my dear friend died. I was crying in my sleep. I was at the service and I couldn’t walk in. I couldn’t face the fact that I didn’t forgive them aloud and say good-bye.

I don’t use the term “friend” lightly when it comes to this particular person. This person has been there for me through so much. We have been there for each other. This person did something to me that I felt was disloyal and it really made me turn completely away. They have been saying sorry and reaching out, but I still haven’t replied. It’s normally not like me to not just forgive especially when I know in my heart this was a mistake they made. Although I’ve forgiven them in my heart, I didn’t acknowledge or let them know it was ok. I’m the kind of friend that when I forgive you, we can start off like nothing ever happened. We will laugh and it will be totally authentic. It’s funny how you can change without even knowing it. This is why it’s important to pray and reflect daily. I was just trying to protect myself. I changed the person I was in fear of being hurt. That is not who I am.

It’s ok to forgive and forget. You might not think its easy to do, but I’m almost positive you’ve done it with someone you loved once before. Forgive them especially if you know their core, their spirit, their soul is good. We all make mistakes. We sometimes make others suffer for the wrong of peoples past mistakes, the people that really didn’t deserve to be in our lives. Still, we don’t need to judge them either.

Don’t miss out on saying “it’s ok I forgive you” to someone you love in person. How would you feel if you never got to see them again…you never got to tell them don’t worry I’ll always…love you.

forgiveforgiveforgiveforgiveforgiveWearing: Zara Blazer, J.Crew long sleeve v-neck (favorite t-shirts at the moment), Current Elliot Jeans on sale (here), Gucci Booties.

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weekly

Loved my cake!

I have the most fun with my family happy!

If you only knew! This is one strong kid. When I look at him it makes me appreciate life.

Smile.

Tea.