T-Shirt Jeans and a Long Sweater
Lately the weather’s been consistently feeling like fall, which is rare for Cali. It will be cold one day and 90* the next. I must say I’m enjoying it. All I want to do is dress comfortably, layer my clothing with nice long sweaters, and enjoy the crisp clean smell of the fresh air.
Looks like this is becoming my uniform, jeans and a white T-shirt. Hope you guys are enjoying your week so far.

Wearing: F21 Long Plaid Sweater (alternative here), J Brand Jeans (alternative here), Jessica Simpson Over the Knee Boots, Chanel Bag, J Crew long-sleeved Tank.
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Christmas Shopping
Sorry I’ve been MIA. Just been trying to get everything together for Christmas. I’ve really been into plaid lately. This J Crew Vest is my current favorite in my closet. I can throw it on over a tank and still be warm, but not stuffy.




Wearing: J Crew Vest and long sleeve T-Shirt, 7 for all Man Kind Jeans, Burberry Boots, Chanel Bag.
Must Have Boot Sale
Easy Style
Yesterday I went shopping in attempt to buy myself something since I didn’t take part in the “black friday” hype. It was a day that I had all to myself which hasn’t happened in about three weeks. I also had the best weekend ever and it wasn’t even planned. I love it when I’m able to hang out with another family, bring my entire family along, look around and everyone is having a great time. Back to my point I didn’t buy one thing and that is so rare for me. I wonder if I’ll continue to have fresh ideas for you all if I’m not in the mood to shop as much as I use to. I also haven’t felt like getting my hair done nor my nails. Guess I’m in a bit of a rut, but I’m happy so I really don’t know what to call it. Here’s what I wore yesterday. Dirty hair, unpolished nails, toes covered cause I need a pedicure. Do you guys ever get like this?
I’m hosting a giveaway tomorrow on instagram. Hopefully one of my faithful visitors wins!





Wearing: Trench Coat (alternative here, here, here, here), Gap T shirt, Free People Jeans (alternative here, here, here), Valentino Heels, Givenchy Clutch.
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Black and White


Wearing: Zara Sweater Dress (alternative here, here, here), Jessica Simpson Tights (Turned Backwards) Giuseppe Zanotti Booties, Ysl bag.
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colored denim
Loving the weather lately. It’s kinda cool so I get to wear my coats. Heading out on a double date with my husband. Hope you guys are having an awesome day so far. xoxo





Wearing:Joie button down, Colored denim (alternative here), Christian Louboutin Pumps.
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Holiday Gift Ideas
I created a Holiday Gift Ideas guide to get your friends or co-workers that’s easy and no fuss. I like getting gifts that I’d actually use…
1. F21 Scarf. A scarf will always be necessary. Throw it in your purse.
2. Make up. All Girls love make-up.
3. Music. The Beyonce CD is perfect.
4. Candles are my favorite gift to receive.
5. Gold hoop earrings are sure to give you a laid back chill vibe.
6. Body scrub and body wash are a must. Who wouldn’t love that.
7. Coffee/Tea Mug. Love this one.
8. A Pretty Phone Case. This is a nice surprise.
9. Nail Polish is every girls’ best friend. I take my colors with me to the nail salon. This one is perfect and would make you feel like you got something spectacular!
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~ stormy attire~
The hardest thing in life is to see someone you care about get hurt. The past couple days I’ve consoled a friend that was hurt by someone she cared about. She was completely blind sided. I’m usually the girl people call on, and I’m always up to give out advice and help out, but when you’re my close friend, you’ll get the royal treatment. Here are some tips on how to be a rock star friend. Trust me you would want someone to do the same thing for you.
Day 1. Take her out to dinner and just listen. Let her know how valuable she is. Let her cry and get it all out. Try not to say I told you so even though you might want to.
Day 2. Send her inspirational messages. Most likely after she leaves you she will still be sad. Text every now and again to let her know that she’s not alone and you were thinking about her.
Day 3. If you’re not to busy go over your friend’s house and help her clean up a bit. Most times when your going through something you just want to sleep, so you neglect things like making your bed, folding laundry or washing dishes. It’s easier to sleep the pain away but, go out of your way to make your friend be productive.
Day 4. Pray with your friend. When you do this it gives hope in knowing that God has all the answers, and he brings people in your life for a reason and a season. This will bring comfort.
Day 5. Just be there. I know we all have lives and families, but go the extra mile for your friend. Hopefully she’ll be coming back to her normal self by now knowing that God has major plans in store for her. She’ll figure out that BETTER things will come.
I’m sure she’d do the same for you.


Wearing: Marc Coat Cape Coat (alternative here, here, here), Rag & Bone Jeans (alternative here), Jessica Simpson over the knee boots, Saint Laurent Bag (other color), Vintage Men’s White Collared Shirt.
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invest in staple pieces
be different, don’t follow the crowd
When I write, I come from a place of compassion. I share my stories and crave to share things with you because I want you guys to see yourself in me. We all share the same stories, but in different ways. We all hurt and have hurt someone at one point in our lives. We all want to be successful, happy, loved and appreciated. The thing is that while we are on this journey on conquering all our hearts desires, there are bumps in our path. Through those bumps we are to take the lesson out of it with a smile, we are to teach others and share our experiences so that we can help others know that they are not alone.
My life and passion is to talk to others and uplift them. Even in my darkest hour, even if it takes me exposing myself, being venerable and not being perfect. I don’t want to be perfect. I want to learn, grow, teach and spread compassion and kindness to everyone I meet.
No matter what the situation is in your life, a death in the family, the betrayal of someone you trusted, not knowing what’s next for you in your life, please know this for sure, that you must continue to spread a light that shines within you even though pain. Also if you do good it is bound to come back to you. Trust in God, know yourself and listen to that inner voice. Don’t fall in the traps that are set for you and will for sure set you back because you want to get back at someone and be vindictive or spiteful. Instead prosper, work on yourself… finish it off with success and a smile.
Tip of the day: Practice compassion towards others.


Wearing: Zara Checkered Top, J Brand Jeans (I adore these as well), Celine Bag. Continue reading
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let nothing hold you back
“Go forward with your shoulders back, with your head high, and with a smile. With your enthusiastic spirit, perseverance, integrity of character, put your intelligence, talents, and passion into action. Never let setbacks excuse you from trying again. Never let negative people influence you or direct what you do.
Never let go of the passions that inspire you, guide you, and always smile on you. These passions will lead you to reach your fullest potential. Hold on to them, and they will keep you honest, caring, kind, and generous with the finest gifts your heart can give”. ~Jacqueline Schiff





Wearing: Two tone leather jacket (alternative here, here, here) Gap White T-shirt, 7 for All Mankind Jeans (alternative here, here, here) Christian Louboutin Calf Hair Pumps, Givenchy Clutch.Have a fantastic weekend.
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happy thanksgiving
im thankful for all of you
So excited for Thanksgiving tomorrow! I’m happy that I have family to cook for and share this day with because there are some that won’t even get a meal let alone be surrounded by those they adore.
There is a woman who works at the grocery store I shop at and she never gets a meal for this special day. In fact she works all holidays to pass the time. I took her a big fancy plate (as if I were serving it to someone I love) last year and plan on doing it again tomorrow. I want you all to do something like that for someone. You don’t know how blessed you truly are.
Happy Thanksgiving to all of you!


Wearing: Zara Scarf, J Brand Denim, Kurt Geiger Boots, Ysl Clutch.
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a woman’s work is never done





Wearing: H&M Trench (alternative here, here), V neck here (t-shirts have been my staple lately), J Brand Jeans, Celine Bag, Shoes (similar here)























