might as well
Wore this on Saturday to take my brother shopping and to see a movie. It was perfect for the cold weather that all of a sudden came through.
Wearing: Nike sweatshirt and sweatpants. Nike trainers
snap shots
It’s my birthday week so I have a couple dinners planned within the next couple days. My brother has been sick so I’ve been keeping him with me. I’ve also been working on a new project for my website. The thing is just to find the time to be as consistent balancing my family, working, and taking care of my brother. I’m sure you’ve noticed lately I’ve been falling short on the updates. I’ll hopefully update more next week. Hope you have a great weekend. Thanks again for the love.
I’d love for this piece to be in my home.
Haven’t had a steak in about 6 months. I went with this one.
It’s time to find your perfect leopard blazer. It’s another classic chic piece to add to your wardrobe that will carry you all year round.
no one can stop my blessings
It’s sad but I’ve just come to the realization that just because you’re kind, doesn’t mean that you’re a good person. You see when I see a person doing nice things I use to automatically place them in a cool person box, but that shouldn’t have been the case. You have to examine a persons character. Is this person being nice to you because there’s a motive behind it? Do they know you’re giving and kind, so they are being (fake) kind to get what they can get from you?
What these people don’t know is when a person is doing something for you from their heart, and you are being the user, you may feel like their a sucker, but God is like more blessing to my faithful giver. The more I read my bible the more I see the phrase about casting your pearls upon swine. It’s really funny to me because when your a user you are constantly moving backwards that’s why they NEVER get ahead.
Be kind with no intentions of getting anything back. Do it because you love to give a helping hand. Do it because you’d want someone to do the same for your mom, dad or anyone you love if they were in need and you weren’t there to help. They could have a flat tire in the middle of nowhere. Wouldn’t it be nice if someone just stopped to help them change it. Do it because God would do it. I’m a witness, don’t worry if you’ll get something back. Plus most times the person you helped isn’t where your blessing comes from. Furthermore, YOU will have peace in your heart that you’re truly a genuine giver with no expectations!
Wearing: Zara Leather Pants, F21 Top, CL Heels, Chanel Bag.
lil snack
Zucchini is one of my favorite vegetable! This is how I like to prepare it.
Slice diagonally, season with salt and pepper.
Use a grill pan with a lil olive oil. Enjoy!
add a little color to your life
I loved the way the sky looked in these pics. I think that all of you should have a pair of cargos in your closet. Classic piece.
Wearing: F21 Sweater, J Brand Cargo Skinnies, Givenchy Heels.
more to me
We all have different types of relationships whether it be with our parents, our children, friends, boyfriends or spouse. All of them must be nurtured. If not then it begins to dwindle away.
In order to have a strong relationship with anyone there needs to be first trust and connection. This is why I make time for the ones I love, even if it’s just for coffee you need to be in tune with the ones you love period!
My connection with my husband is always reinforced with date night. If you notice anything that’s strong, outsiders will try to break. This is another reason that relationships need to be reinforced. I put effort into looking good for him and I expect compliments. This is a night just to ourselves with no distractions. It might not always turn out great, but we both put the effort because we need to maintain our connection and grow, and besides that… love takes work in this imperfect world.
Wearing: ASOS Dress, Zara Leather Jacket, Alexander Wang Heels
a way out
Nothing special going on around here, just been chilling with my family. I’ve been dressing comfy so here’s a couple snapshots of the past couple weeks.
Candy!
He wanted the dodgers to win.
Carnival look.
Hoping my new project is the one! At a meeting drinking carrot juice.
Playing dress up with my girlfriends. So much fun!
season tips
For summer/spring I normally use a bedding with color and one that has a lighter texture for those hot nights.
For fall/winter I go for darker colors and a more heavier material because it can get cold. You guys know I love anything that’s vibrant, so I always add a pop of color with a throw pillow. Hope you enjoyed this post.
hot day last thursday
I’m so grateful to live in a place that even when it’s fall you still might have a summer day. This long flowy blouse made me feel goddess like as it blew back as I walked. It’s not something I’d usually go for, but I’m a step out the box kinda girl. Thursdays is family date night, so this is what I wore.
Wearing: Celine Shades, Creative Collections Blouse, James Perse Tank, Paige Denim shorts, Givenchy Heels.
scallop salad
Slice in half diagonally and season scallops with salt and pepper
Grill with butter and garlic…
Lastly use spinach, raspberries, grapes and tomatoes in your salad. Top with grilled scallops. I love to use my favorite rich poppy seed dressing by Brianna’s. Enjoy!
fall fashion
Long sleeve flowy dresses are perfect for fall. They not only look effortless they actually are.
balance
Taking care of you and staying fit can be really hard especially if you have kids, a husband and work. I’ve always worked out although I’ve slacked off for a few months here and there. What I can say is that when I do workout I feel better, my attitude is better and it makes me feel like I did something for myself, and we need that time to ourself. I love to eat and when I workout regularly, I’m more conscientious of the things that I put in my mouth. The other day I had a lunch meeting and I had grilled mushrooms, spinach and asparagus and was full and satisfied. I felt so good afterwards! I knew that the next day I was going to the movies and dinner so I decided to save my bad eating for the creamed spinach at Ruth Chris. I will never deny myself the things I love to eat, but I watch my portions. The food has to be worth it because if it’s not, that’s where you start to feel guilty about what you’ve eaten. Lastly enjoy life and try to stay balanced! No one said it would be easy…
snap
Wore this to lunch with my friend on her birthday. Nothing like that one on one time…
My husband just randomly bought this strawberry shortcake from our favorite cafe. I got excited…
Lunch at Juicy Ladies. I get juiced kale, spinach, carrots, beets, ginger and lime. They do it just right.
When all else fails…Paint. It quiets the mind.
Chillin in my favorite pjs by Donna Karen watching movies with my family.
fall shopping list
Readers request!
I’ve gotten many request lately on the care of my legs. Well I’ve been working out a bit more than usual, but the truth is I don’t carry much muscle in my thighs although I do in my calves. Here’s what I do to make my legs smooth and make them appear more toned than I think they actually are:).
Ingredients: Coconut oil, Sugar, Orange Zest and a couple drops of Josie Maran Argan Oil. Mix in a jar and microwave for 10-15 seconds.
I use to get my legs waxed, but I really don’t have the time so I shave.
Rub the mixture in…(I had shorts on)
Rinse…
Lather and shave…
I’m totally in love with Josie Maran’s Products. I mix that Body butter I was telling you about (here) with a Body bronzer I’ve had for way too long (similar here) from Victoria Secrets. It’s discontinued:(. I then rub it all over my legs.
Can you see the difference?
Hope this was helpful. Have fun mixing.
Happy B day MOM
“A dreamer is one who can only find his way by moonlight, and his punishment is that he sees the dawn before the rest of the world.” Oscar Wilde
“To accomplish great things, we must not only act, but also dream; not only plan, but also believe.” Anatole France
“If you take responsibility for yourself you will develop a hunger to accomplish your dreams.” Les Brown
Today’s my moms birthday. I love her so much and can’t imagine my life without her. She use to say that my dreams somehow always came true. In small ways and in some big ways, they did. Her dreams were mostly for God to bless her so that she can help others. She’s a priceless woman.
Never stop setting new goals for yourself! I will always dream, believe in myself and never stop trying to accomplish what I’m passionate about. I encourage you to do the same.
Love you mom and thanks for all that you’ve taught me!
wearing: Joie Blouse, Seven Boyfriend Seven Jeans, Gucci Heels.