cheerful giver
are you a screwdriver
“If you like to pinch people, smile and act like the person your pinching is crazy, then you have a sick problem”. What I mean by this metaphor is that people can look you in the face and tell you they didn’t do something, when you either felt it was a lie or actually seen the truth. Men (and women) will do that to you and before you know it you’ll be wanting to check yourself in the mental institution. Ladies don’t let em’ do it to you! That is one thing that I love about my husband and I (we have been through so many test) it’s no bull! If he is wrong he will admit it and apologize, not have me questioning myself. And with that being said, I can be confident to trust my gut with every other occurrence in my life. I’m usually right on point with what I’m feeling.
Now it wasn’t always like this (he tried it), but he had to know that I wasn’t playing any games and there was a chance he could lose me. So think, is what you’re about to do worth the risk that you’re about to take? Ladies if you know you’re a good woman remember what he won’t do, someone else will. I’m not just talking about finances, (even though that’s a plus), I’m talking about a support system for you as a woman.
Just always know when you do right by people, you only have good things coming into your life. Dump the toxic people, be alone and enjoy your own company. It’s that simple! Have a great weekend!


Top: INC, Old Navy Rock star Skinnies, Ysl Heels, F21 Necklace, Marc Jacob Bag.
I caught up on all my emails today. Thank you all. I have the best following in the world. You are the reason I keep writting!:)
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i want it
peace
you are enough
happiness over everything
“Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions.” Dalai Lama
“If you want others to be happy, practice compassion. If you want to be happy, practice compassion.” Dalai Lama
“Happiness is like a kiss. You must share it to enjoy it.“Bernard Meltzer
“Happiness is itself a kind of gratitude.“Joseph Wood Krutch
“Happiness lives deep inside of me. I will always share a smile” Tanya


Wearing: Zara top (option here), Zara necklace (option here), Current Elliot Jeans, YSL Heels (option here) , Chanel bag (option here or here).
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special guy
I’ve had this blouse for 4 years now and I’m still in with love it. The shorts I’ve had for a while now as well and forgot all about them, so I decided to pair these two throw-backs together. Hope you guys had a great weekend.

See by Chloe blouse, Plenty shorts, Giuseppe Zanotti wegdes, Celine shades.
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it ain’t about the money
Treasures
I just finally admitted to myself that I have an obsession with loose comfy dresses. I bought this one from Zara about a month ago on sale and wore it twice already. I’m trying to clean out my closet so I can see first off what I have and secondly, wear it again. I get caught up sometimes and forget the treasures I have.


Zara Dress, Steve Madden Flats, Gucci Bag.
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winner
don’t take it personal
Paired this fun top with my jeans to add some glitz. Feels like forever since I’ve gotten dressed. Here’s some quick photos I took before I headed to lunch.


Zara Top, Current Elliott Jeans, Gucci Heels.
let it all go

I am constantly working on myself and in doing so, I’m constantly being faced with unexpected challenges. When I’m faced with a battle my first reaction in the past would be to go off, but my approach has changed because my way of thinking has changed.
I was faced with a very tough situation by a friend a couple months back. I was doing a lot and going through a lot and I felt that this person was very uncompassionate to my situation. When they were acting this way I had to take a deep breath and think to myself, you don’t hate this person. Also I still considered what they were going though and didn’t think of myself and proceeded with kindness. In the end my mother told me I should have said how I felt, but I decided to just apologize and move on so nothing can impeed my progress of improving myself.
I realized in order to stay on the right path we have to be aware of everything around us, constantly work on ourselves and be good to the people around us, even if they don’t practice the same manners. It doesn’t matter who’s right or wrong. In the end you’ll have peace knowing you were kind.
Tip of the day: You will resort to your old behavior if you don’t constantly work on YOU.
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family and food
My husband and I love Crustacean’s Restaurant. We eat there way to much. So the other night he brought dungeness crab home and you know I had to try and replicate our favorite dish. So I googled the recipe and well, it made the cut. I’m making it again this weekend.

I’m so excited to finally spend time with my brother. He’ll be here this weekend. You never know what ingredients makes your food so tasty (cheat day) when you dine out and when it comes to my little brother I’m making myself more aware. He gets no cheat days:( so that’s why I plan on making this dish for him, but with a couple tablespoons of olive oil instead of butter.


Enjoy!
couple looks
I can feel that
Jumpsuit
Jump suits are the easiest thing to throw on when you want to dress easy. I’m finding myself in transition when it comes to my dress code attire. Comfort has been the only thing on my mind. I also did good this year with not buying a lot of trendy shoes. Proud of myself.
jumpum
Zara Jumpsuit, YSL Heels, Dior Bag
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keep testing your limits…

When you’re dealing with a toxic person how do you determine when is last straw to finally walk away. Why do we allow ourselves to get hurt time and time again by the same people that we know needs to be removed from our circle. And when you think that you have moved on from one situation another one always takes it’s place. When we realize to accept people for who they are and stop thinking that they’ll change is when you will attract different people in your life that’s more compatible. I have a hard time facing and seeing people for who they are because I try hard to understand them and look deeper, but sometimes it’s just best to pray for others and just move on. At the end of the day you have to just walk away. Love YOU more.
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