simple silk cami + white jeans

simple silk cami + white jeans

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black fashion blogger I literally had the best weekend ever. Saturday I got some work done, relaxed and watched movies with Laila.  Sunday the family and I went to see my oldest daughter.  In case some of you didn’t know this is her second year studying to be a registered nurse. She goes to the most beautiful college right on the ocean.

It’s so amazing to watch your daughter become a woman. She is so clean, neat and organized. When she was younger she thought I was crazy when I told her never have dishes in your sink, don’t walk on your bathroom rugs with your shoes, make your bed every morning, comb your hair, iron your clothing, don’t leave dishes in your room,  always say please and thank you, pray and do a morning ritual etc. At first she didn’t take it so well. We would argue like crazy because again she thought I was crazy, but I kept pushing because I knew how I wanted her to be. I wanted her to be better than me. I wanted her to know that it’s also just important to take care of yourself as it is your household, because that’s what I want her to attract in her life. Wow… things have changed. She never was messy, but I see myself in her and the change in her as I spent time with her yesterday. Could it be that all my nagging, praying and resilience on teaching her how to be a woman paid off? Just watching her made my heart smile. Amaya also has the biggest heart. She’s just like me, she’s tuff,  far from slow, but will cry in a second because she is very sensitive and I love that about her. At first she was acting too tuff but has balanced herself. What a good feeling it as when she thanked me for teaching her how to be and to know that it came from a place of love to better her life for the future. I can’t stop thanking God, he is so good.

My daughters are the only opinions that mean the most to me. I love them so much and those that know me know that I spend all of my extra time with them. If you have kids and they are being a bit rebellious, pray for them and don’t back down. You are the parent and they know it, but  they will try to think they know it all and challenge you. Just try very hard to practice what you preach, always give hugs and kisses and spend as much time as you can with your children. Show them even little things like how to clean out their drawer and put sock with socks and underwear with underwear. Buy them their own body wash and face wash so they can feel like they have something to look forward to as they have to tackle their day. We always think kids have it so easy but in all actually they have it rough. Kids in school are so much different. We have to watch our kids closely and the friends they want to keep just as close. We must not try to please them but rather than to teach them, know when to be a mother and know when to be a friend. It won’t be easy but stand firm, trust in God and I promise you… they’ll come around. ♥

Hope I didn’t talk too much. xoxoblack fashion black fashion bloggerblack fashion blogger black fashion blogger black fashion blogger black fashion blogger

Self Care

Self Care

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Let’s start with the night before. I had to pack my bag, help Laila pack hers as well, go to bed early so I can wake you the next day for work and my aunt’s 60th Birthday Party. Not to mention when I have to wake up early I wake up every couple of hours because I have this phobia that one day I’ll  oversleep. ©

Everyone wish  Aunt Ruth Happy Birthday.

On this particular day I worked from 6 in the morning which means I had to wake up at 5am because I had to get ready (which I’ve mastered how to get dressed in 20 minutes) and my drive time was 40 min. I had to be done by 1:30 to get my hair done (I can’t front, when my hair is done I feel my best),  and drive to my friend’s house to get dressed for my aunt’s party which was on the westside and started at 5:30pm. I hate getting dressed away from home so I had to practically pack everything I own (♣♠♥♦please Lord don’t let me forget anything) and stuff my car. Did I mention I was going to try to drive back home but my friend insisted that it would be smarter to get dressed at her house (she made us feel at home)  so thank God I took her up on her generous offer. In addition, I was feeling like crap and didn’t want to do anything but go home and get in the bed. However I got myself together, put my makeup on (slowly) and ended up feeling like a million bucks. I saw my huge family and instantly, boom, my night was filled with love and joy. My family is so loving and kind and I love when I’m around them. It was like God knew that I needed to be around them all. Life gets busy so we all don’t make enough time for one another, hence my goal for the New Year, to see them more. My day ended perfect, which made me feel like I had the perfect day!

What I’m saying all this is say is fight through your hectic days and wait on the good to happen. I want you to expect it. EXAMPLES: get a flat tire say to yourself , God is saving me from something so I’m here waiting for AAA for a reason. Forget your mascara at home, hey that means you get to try your friends, which turns out is now my MUST HAVE. Lastly, no matter how tough the day may seem or get, keep reaching for a better feeling or thought and it’ll come. xoxo

Tip of the day: Stop being so hard on yourself, you’re doing the best you can!
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Equipment Blouse + AG Denim + Gucci Velvet bag

Equipment Blouse + AG Denim + Gucci Velvet bag

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black fashion bloggerHey guys! Hope that you’ve been well. As for me I’ve just been trying to keep my mind creative, focused and purposeful. Don’t let anyone ever tell you life is easy or that anyone has it less tough than you do. We all suffer in our own way which means EVERYONE has problems. We have to have the power and control of our mind to be able to handle things in a proactive way. The reason I started writing again is because God wants us to be vulnerable with each other so that we can show others that they aren’t alone. I’m not here to paint the picture that life is easy cause it’s not.  What the hard days have taught me for sure is to appreciate every good moment, not days… moments. Take the time to live in your happy moments. I bask in the good. So when you see me traveling and smiling, know that it’s properly deserved as you deserve it too! ♥

Tip of the day : Keep on being kind and you’ll be fine. xoxoblack fashion bloggerblack fashion bloggerblack fashion bloggerblack fashion bloggerblack fashion blogger

best of 2017

best of 2017

This was Jan 1, 2017. I brought in the New Year in Miami.black fashion blogger

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fashion blogger Cabana life in Tulum, Mexicofashion blogger In Malibu with one of my best friends flying a kite, I love flying kitesblack fashion blogger my baby can go anywhere with me cause no matter where we are she chills. My best friendblack fashion travel blogger Tanning, enjoying great company  and reading in Tulumfashion blogger Laila and I in our first ad together for Crocs. She was so excited. travel fashion blogger Sitting at the dock in Arubafashion bloggerTurks and Caicosroom serviceLaila and I vacationing in full effect in New Yorkfashion blogger aruba travelHotel lobby in Arubafashion blogger11:59 pm on 12/31/17 I had to pry everyone outside to see the fireworks and I’m like a big kid way too excited. It ended up being a perfect night.fashion blogger First kiss of 2018 HAPPY NEW YEAR!  12:01 am. 1/1/18.

I look forward to building so many more memories with my family. We have so much to look forward to this year. No matter what I know they have my back and want me to make me happy, hence why they travel the world with me. xoxo

salmon croissant sandwich

salmon croissant sandwich

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Easy Ingredients:

  • salmon
  • croissant
  • old bay seasoning
  • pesto
  • parmesan cheese
  • dried parsley
  • salt pepper

First you season and cut up your salmon into pieces, then you grill in a cast iron skillet. Slice the croissant and grill then spread pesto. Then sprinkle cheese on top turn off the fire off and add foil. When the cheese melts add to the croissant and serve. This is our favorite meal at my house at the moment. Hope you enjoy! xoxo
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Turks & Caicos

Turks & Caicos

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I’m here in the beautiful Turks and Caicos for nine days and I’m enjoying every second. I haven’t gotten dressed once. All I do is go to the beach, eat sleep and repeat. We have eaten tons of lobster. We have a cottage so we have a refrigerator full of everything we love. My husband went to the fish market yesterday so last night we had scallops and red snapper for dinner. I feel like I’m at home, but just with the most magnificent  beach in my backyard which by the way is my dream!

Now to these bathing suits. The first one is only $23! This is my husbands favorite. It has a great quality surprisingly. I’m going to order more when I get home for my next vacation. The other bathing suit I ordered and it was cheap as well but the quality is horrible. Nevertheless, he likes this one too. It just has no support so I was constantly adjusting it but the print is beautiful. Sadly even though it’s not that great I will wear it again just because the print is amazing, he likes it and it isn’t constricted, so it makes it easy. Have you noticed my new shades? They are now my absolute favorite! They make a statement yet they are very simple. Lastly let’s not forget about my favorite most suitable drink for going to the beach, my Buzzbox. I take then with me everywhere I go and everyone loves them. Perfect buzz from one box not to mention if you have two. They have premium liquor in them, so no headaches.

I will try to post as much as I can, but as for now I’m just trying to be present and enjoy every single moment. xoxo black fashion blogger black fashion blogger fashion blogger fashion blogger fashion blogger

2017 Christmas Gift Guide

2017 Christmas Gift Guide

Holiday Gift Guide

 

Here’s a holiday gift guide for all of my ladies. Don’t be cheap with your friends. I suggest you only have amazing people around you so that you can buy them these thoughtful gifts. My best friend buys me the best gifts, even though she sees I have everything, she pays attention and I’m never disappointed. Let’s not even talk about the gifts my husband buys me so guys this gift guide is not for her, unless you just started dating her. Seriously these gifts will be great. I get so disappointed when someone buys me a gift that I never end up using, I know it’s the thought that counts so I’m helping you think. I know you can relate. Who wouldn’t love anything from this list. xoxo
1. Candles are a the best ever!
2. This tooth brush just seems so cool
3. So Posh beauty is so girly and all of her products are amazing. Check them out here
4. Everyone loves phone cases
5. I’d be so happy if someone bought me this lip stick… hint hint lol
6. Fingerless gloves are my favorite and who could resist these.
7. I really am about to order myself this robe. I forgot to buy myself a Christmas gift.
8. I ride my bike a lot and I’m sure you and your friends work out so this running phone case is perfect.
9. This Bose speaker is perfect. I take mines with me on all of my vacations, except when I go to the 1 Hotel in Miami cause they give you theirs to take out side,
10. My best friend loves Le Creuset Pots and one of my followers got me one last christmas. It’s purple and I love it. Thank you girly.
11. Perfume is always a good idea
12. I love blankets. Buy your friend a blanket. She will love it!